Old House, New House

Monday, April 18

You may have wondered why I haven't been blogging much these past few weeks. Well, we have been swept up in a whirlwind of inspections, negotiations, packing, painting, and more. Yes, we are moving!



Old House


New House
We aren't moving far. Two blocks to be exact. So many people have looked at us like we are crazy, but we really do just love our neighborhood! The short answer to why we are moving is that we thought we would take advantage of the lower interest rates to buy a house that has more square footage and the ideal layout.

The longer answer is this: We have talked for a long time about doing some renovation to our house to make better use of the space we do have. Down the road we wanted a place for the kids to do homework, a place to eat, and a better kitchen layout. We have been saving with that in mind, but as we looked into it further, the costs to renovate were quickly multiplying. We then just barely thought - "is it better to move than renovate?" I was really skeptical as I just love our neighborhood and really didn't want to move to another area of town. We thought that finding the house that met all that we wanted (cul-de-sac, master bedroom apart from other bedrooms, formal dining and breakfast nook, big windows, nice yard) would never be available here. Homes rarely come on the market and their aren't many cul-de-sacs to choose from. But, the weekend we sat down to figure this all out, we decided to check out har.com. The home we made and offer on, which was eventually accepted, had only been on the market 3 days. We knew that this couldn't just be a coincidence and went and saw it. The rest is history and now our house is on the market!! (anyone interested in moving to Spring Branch West?)

It has been a different journey then other big decisions we have made in the past. In the past, when we come up to what feels like a wide chasm we don't know how to cross, God makes a bridge clear through prayer and His word. This time it has felt like He has asked us to take a step that seems out into thin air, saying "trust, trust", and then at the last minute, a stepping stone appears.

We still have a long ways to go to get across this chasm, but it has been exciting to see the stepping stones appear at just the right time.

I can't wait to show you more pictures of the house once it is officially ours. I am really excited about all the decorating options this house will allow me to try out. It will be a work in process as it needs lots of updating too (but no walls moved!), but it should be manageable and a fun on-going project for me as this time we really do plan to stay for the next 20 years.

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Could this be Dexter? If so...it's not from my genes!

Tuesday, April 5

From this WSJ article:

The Sleepless Elite

Why Some People Can Run on Little Sleep and Get So Much Done

Melinda Beck explains why for a small number of people getting a full night of sleep is a waste of time and the reasons behind it.


.For a small group of people—perhaps just 1% to 3% of the population—sleep is a waste of time.

Natural "short sleepers," as they're officially known, are night owls and early birds simultaneously. They typically turn in well after midnight, then get up just a few hours later and barrel through the day without needing to take naps or load up on caffeine.

They are also energetic, outgoing, optimistic and ambitious, according to the few researchers who have studied them. The pattern sometimes starts in childhood and often runs in families.

While it's unclear if all short sleepers are high achievers, they do have more time in the day to do things, and keep finding more interesting things to do than sleep, often doing several things at once.
.Nobody knows how many natural short sleepers are out there. "There aren't nearly as many as there are people who think they're short sleepers," says Daniel J. Buysse, a psychiatrist at the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center and a past president of the American Academy of Sleep Medicine, a professional group.

Out of every 100 people who believe they only need five or six hours of sleep a night, only about five people really do, Dr. Buysse says. The rest end up chronically sleep deprived, part of the one-third of U.S. adults who get less than the recommended seven hours of sleep per night, according to a report last month by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

To date, only a handful of small studies have looked at short sleepers—in part because they're hard to find. They rarely go to sleep clinics and don't think they have a disorder.

A few studies have suggested that some short sleepers may have hypomania, a mild form of mania with racing thoughts and few inhibitions. "These people talk fast. They never stop. They're always on the up side of life," says Dr. Buysse. He was one of the authors of a 2001 study that had 12 confirmed short sleepers and 12 control subjects keep diaries and complete numerous questionnaires about their work, sleep and living habits.One survey dubbed "Attitude for Life" that was actually a test for hypomania. The natural short sleepers scored twice as high as the controls.

There is currently no way people can teach themselves to be short sleepers. Still, scientists hope that by studying short sleepers, they can better understand how the body regulates sleep and why sleep needs vary so much in humans.



.Normal Sleeper

Most adults have normal sleep needs, functioning best with 7 to 9 hours of sleep, and about two-thirds of Americans regularly get it. Children fare better with 8 to 12 hours, and elderly people may need only 6 to 7.


Wannabe Short Sleeper

One-third of Americans are sleep-deprived, regularly getting less than 7 hours a night, which puts them at higher risk of diabetes, obesity, high blood pressure and other health problems.

Short Sleeper

Short sleepers, about 1% to 3% of the population, function well on less than 6 hours of sleep without being tired during the day. They tend to be unusually energetic and outgoing. Geneticists who spotted a gene variation in short sleepers were able to replicate it in mice—which needed less sleep than usual, too.

."My long-term goal is to someday learn enough so we can manipulate the sleep pathways without damaging our health," says human geneticist Ying-Hui Fu at the University of California-San Francisco. "Everybody can use more waking hours, even if you just watch movies."

Dr. Fu was part of a research team that discovered a gene variation, hDEC2, in a pair of short sleepers in 2009. They were studying extreme early birds when they when they noticed that two of their subjects, a mother and daughter, got up naturally about 4 a.m. but also went to bed past midnight.

Genetic analyses spotted one gene variation common to them both. The scientists were able to replicate the gene variation in a strain of mice and found that the mice needed less sleep than usual, too.

News of their finding spurred other people to write the team, saying they were natural short sleepers and volunteering to be studied. The researchers are recruiting more candidates and hope to find more gene variations they have in common.

Potential candidates for the gene study are sent multiple questionnaires and undergo a long structured phone interview. Those who make the initial screening wear monitors to track their sleep patterns at home. Christopher Jones, a University of Utah neurologist and sleep scientist who oversees the recruiting, says there is one question that is more revealing than anything else: When people do have a chance to sleep longer, on weekends or vacation, do they still sleep only five or six hours a night? People who sleep more when they can are not true short sleepers, he says.

That All-Nighter Feels Good—Temporarily

Sleep deprivation makes most people grumpy. It's sometimes used as a form of torture. Oddly enough, it can also bring on temporary euphoria, according to a study in the journal Neuroscience last month.

Researchers had 14 healthy young adults stay up all night and all the next day and then compared their reactions with 13 subjects who had slept normally. In one test, sleepless subjects asked to rate a series of images uniformly saw them as more pleasant or positive. "We saw this strange lopsided shift," says lead author Matthew Walker, an associate professor of psychology and neuroscience at the University of California-Berkeley.

Brain scans also showed that the subjects who had pulled all-nighters had heightened activity in the mesolimbic pathway, a brain circuit driven by dopamine, a neurotransmitter that typically regulates feelings of pleasure, addiction and cravings.

The boost of dopamine after an all-nighter may help explain why sleep deprivation can alleviate major depression in about 60% of patients, although the effect is only temporary. "As soon as they get recovery sleep, all that mood elevation is lost," says Dr. Walker.

Could the sleep-deprived brain be somehow compensating for the lack of downtime with a surge of dopamine to keep on going? Scientists don't yet know.

Earlier studies have also shown that sleep deprivation amplifies activity in the amygdala, the primitive emotional center of the brain, and reduces it the prefrontal cortex, where higher, more rational thought occurs. It may be that the brain reverts to a more basic mode of operating when it is sleep deprived, Dr. Walker speculates. Alternatively, he says, "we know that different parts of the brain are more sensitive than others to sleep deprivation. It may be that the prefrontal cortex just goes down first."

Although the feelings of euphoria sound great, Dr. Walker warns that operating more on emotion than reason can be very risky. "You are all gas pedal and no brake," he says. That can be dangerous, indeed, if you are in a job that requires both long hours and difficult decision making

.To date, Dr. Jones says he has identified only about 20 true short sleepers, and he says they share some fascinating characteristics. Not only are their circadian rhythms different from most people, so are their moods (very upbeat) and their metabolism (they're thinner than average, even though sleep deprivation usually raises the risk of obesity). They also seem to have a high tolerance for physical pain and psychological setbacks.

"They encounter obstacles, they just pick themselves up and try again," Dr. Jones says.

Some short sleepers say their sleep patterns go back to childhood and some see the same patterns starting in their own kids, such as giving up naps by age 2. As adults, they gravitate to different fields, but whatever they do, they do full bore, Dr. Jones says.

"Typically, at the end of a long, structured phone interview, they will admit that they've been texting and surfing the Internet and doing the crossword puzzle at the same time, all on less than six hours of sleep," says Dr. Jones. "There is some sort of psychological and physiological energy to them that we don't understand."

Drs. Jones and Fu stress that there is no genetic test for short sleeping. Ultimately, they expect to find that many different genes play a role, which may in turn reveal more about the complex systems that regulate sleep in humans.

Benjamin Franklin, Thomas Jefferson and Leonardo da Vinci were too busy to sleep much, according to historical accounts. Winston Churchill and Thomas Edison came close but they were also fond of taking naps, which may disqualify them as true short sleepers.

Nowadays, some short sleepers gravitate to fields like blogging, videogame design and social media, where their sleep habits come in handy. "If I could find a way to do it, I'd never sleep," says Dave Hatter, a software developer in Fort Wright, Ky. He typically sleeps just four to five hours a night, up from two to three hours a few years ago.

"It's crazy, but it works for me," says Eleanor Hoffman, an overnight administrator at Bellevue Hospital Center in New York who would rather spend afternoons playing mahjong with friends than sleep anymore than four hours. Sometimes she calls her cousin, Linda Cohen, in Pittsburgh about 4 a.m., since she knows she'll be wide awake as well—just like they were as kids.

"I come to life about 11 at night," says Mrs. Cohen, who owns a chain of toy stores with her husband and gets up early in the morning with ease. "If I went to bed earlier, I'd feel like half my life was missing."

Are you a short sleeper? For more information on the genetic study, contact Dr. Jones at chris.jones@hsc.utah.edu



Write to Melinda Beck at HealthJournal@wsj.com

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Measure Measure

Friday, April 1

Dexter has really loved going to the Library every 2 weeks. I forgot my wallet one week, so after getting to the parking lot, had to turn around and go home. He began to cry, yell "books! back!" over and over, and generally was extremely put out we didn't get to go to the library that day. It was then I realized I might have a budding bibliophile on my hands. Hee hee. I hope!

One of his favorite books is Tip Tip Dig Dig, by Emma Garcia. Last visit to the library we found another book by the same author entitled Tap Tap Bang Bang. He has loved naming the tools and what they do. Since the book was such a hit, I decided to bring out my sewing tap measure so he could "measure measure" his toys for himself. It was a huge success and was the star feature that afternoon as we measured his books, his cars, multiple cars together, and various body parts.

I have to say all these new books we are trying out from the library are really expanding Dexter's vocabulary. After he reads a book he loves several times, he starts using key words or concepts from the book out and about in real life.

So, I have logged quite a few hours in our purple chair reading The Foot Book and Tip Tip Dig Dig, but it seems to finally be paying off. One book though has brought some interesting observations...as my previous post shows!


 

 

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Expanding Vocabulary

Dexter has been potty training, to an extent. I haven't changed a poopy diaper in about 4 weeks due to him pooping in his potty each day at home for me. Now, when he is at Mother's Day Out, the park, or the church nursery, he doesn't seem to notice and just makes use of his diaper. But we have some success and I am happy to not have to change a dirty diaper.

Well, it seems as if he is becoming aware of more and more. He was reading "on his own" an older version of Richard Scarry's book, Early Words. He started to say "poo poo", so I of course rush over ready to get him to the potty. But this time he doesn't want to go with me, he just points at the page. What does he point to, you ask? This picture:

 
Oh yes, Dexter thought the tail was poo poo. I couldn't stop laughing! I think it is hilarious how he is taking two things he is aware of in different areas and putting them together. I can't wait to see what else he observes in the near future!

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Cards

Monday, March 28

This little guy loves cards! Here he is reading a few of the ones he received over breakfast. He likes to stand them up and "read" them. He is also into books of all kinds. He tries to read anything paper and usually gets upset if he can't open it up and turn the pages (like he couldn't do at dinner the other night...it was just a plastic stand with the drink menu on it). I love this face too. Look for a post soon about another one of his recent observations...hee hee....

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Sharing another Post

Monday, March 21

I have been reading the book, Wild Things, The Art of Nurturing Boys.  The first chapters are overviews of each stage of a boy's development.  I cried just a bit as I read about the teenage then college years, realizing how quickly those years will be here.  I looked down at my little guy playing with cars and when he said, "mama...play" and came and took my hand, I of course went.  I want to get on the floor, snuggle him close, and kiss his owie for the millionth time as much as I can before he doesn't want anything to do with me.

So when I visited my friend's blog today and saw this, I had to share.

Again from my friend Christina's blog, The Hoover Household:

The Days are Long...

...but the years are short. That's what someone recently reminded me about being the mom of young children.


Lately, when I look at my tall, skinny, smarty-pants first grader, I am fully aware that this statement is true. Kyle and I talked today about the births of each of our boys, recounting the moments we associate with each one and talking about how quickly the years are passing. I always have moments where I think to myself, "Remember this moment" and try to soak it in. Here are some things I want to remember about having young children:

•the smell of freshly washed children smothered in Johnson & Johnson baby lotion

•juicy, naked tooshies

•slobbery, open-mouth kisses

•them being small enough to sit in my lap (and wanting to)

•the sheer excitement on their faces when doing/seeing new things

•the way they run to me when I've been away

•sweet voices singing songs about Jesus

•footie pajamas

•chubby fingers

•the sound of "Mama"....how does it so quickly change to "Mom"?

•the way they look sleeping at night

•rocking and singing before bed

•the way they wrestle and run through the house

•the feel of little arms wrapped around my neck

•the giggles I can get from playing peek-a-boo or jumping out from around the corner

•the smell of Pampers diapers

•being able to contain them in a crib

•naptimes

•the arts and crafts they bring home from preschool/church/school

•playing games and reading books and just spending time together

•little feet!!!

•their innocence

•watching Kyle play with the boys

•seeing them start to know/remember Bible stories and verses

What do you want to remember about these years of mothering young kids?

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Watering Time

Saturday, March 19


We picked up this Car's watering can at Lowe's last weekend, and he has loved putting it to use!


Helping water the new plants on the porch...
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Borax, You're the Best!

Thursday, March 17


Borax powder. Oh, how have I survived without you?? What is it you ask?

Borax (sodium borate) is formed from repeated evaporation of seasonal lakes. Its chemical analysis is anhydrous borax, 53.8 percent; boric acid, 37.2 percent; sodium oxide, 16.6 percent; water of crystallization, 46.2 percent; and chloride, 37 parts per million.
It is truly amazing.  It has no chemical odor, I can use it without gloves (it does dry the skin a tad) and works like a charm on pretty much anything.  I just used it to scrub my tub and tile, but also add it to my laundry to "boost" the cleaning power.  And it works!! 

Best of all, it was only $3 for the whole box at HEB. 

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Mama (and babies) Has a Sweet New Ride

Thursday, March 10

Oh, I am super pumped about my most recent craigslist purchase!  I snagged a Phil and Ted's Sport buggy for well over half-off the original price!  The sport buggy is a slightly older model, and if you compare what I paid for this one to buying one brand new now, it is WAY over half off. 

I've been on a search for the perfect double stroller and thought these were just out of my range.  What did I want?  Fixed wheel or swivel?  Side-by-side or one in front of each other?  B.O.B. (requiring the payment of my first born son and right arm) or a cheap plastic model that may break right away?  Did I want it to fit through a standard door, or did I care?  The choices were making me crazy.  In the back of my mind though, I remembered the Phil and Ted stroller.  It first caught my eye when I briefly participated in Stroller Fit (now Baby Boot Camp).  These were the "official" strollers of Stroller Fit and they seemed so perfect!  It is as wide and as long as a single stroller, yet could hold two children!  It had the front swivel wheel I decided I really wanted, and on top of that, the one on craigslist wasn't red and wouldn't clash with my son's hair (it's the little things in life...).  Check out the website for all the ways you can use the second seat attachment as they are too hard to describe.

So, I'll give it a try with my little one and one on the way.  We figure if it doesn't work for our needs, I can always re-sale it on craigslist since I got such a great buy.

Oh craigslist...how I love thee!

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10 Ways for a Toddler to Help in the Kitchen

Tuesday, March 8

My mom just sent me the link to this blog post.  It is full of great ideas for me to keep Dexter occupied while I am busy in the kitchen.  Thought I would pass it along if anyone else needed some hints to get started.

How about you?  What do you to keep your toddler(s) entertained while you are busy in the kitchen?

From the blog, No Ordinary Homestead:
Our little Mad Hatter, Mackenzie, is at a stage where she LOVES to help us do anything and everything she possibly can…but it can be a little bit challenging to find tasks that a 2-year-old can complete in the kitchen without making a mess or burning down the house. I try to let her explore new tasks as often as I can, especially because she tends to get a rather cross with me if I can’t find some way to let her help, and I am often really surprised at just how much she is actually capable of.




I for one love help in the kitchen, even if I’m not so great at asking for it most of the time. So I’m pretty thrilled to have discovered by trial and error, these 10 ways my toddler can lend me a hand.

1.Putting away silverware

I was totally impressed that Mackenzie, when given a stool to stand on, can totally identify where the different forks, spoons and butter knives go in the drawer. She places them all in the correct direction and everything. I’m not so thrilled about putting the silverware away anyway.

2.Adding ingredients to bowl/pot/KitchenAid

Obviously I am careful to make sure she won’t burn herself or get caught in the KitchenAid, but she’s pretty good at adding ingredients to things. And when she does happen to spill a bit, I try to remind myself that it’s nothing a few swipes with the sponge won’t clean up. And she really enjoys being a part of the cooking action.

3.Stirring ingredients

I generally just let her stir the dry stuff but I do sometimes give her a spoon to stir things while I’m cooking dinner in a pot or frying pan. Again, there are sometimes small messes made — but at least no instances of more dinner ending up outside the pot, or in her mouth!

4.Tearing up lettuce

You cannot believe how good she is at this! Like she’d been doing nothing but tearing up lettuce for salads her entire life. And there’s really no way for her to do it wrong.

5.Drying plastic dishes

After watching me do it a hundred times, Mackenzie grabbed herself a towel and started drying off plastic stuff from the dishwasher. And then she hung up the towel afterwards. I’m telling you, we have one good kid on our hands!

6.Taking out glasses and dishes from the dishwasher and giving to me to put away

I always freak out a little bit when she goes to grab a glass or bowl — but so far she’s been very careful and we’ve had no mishaps. Not even I manage to keep from breaking things every now and then. My biggest concern is that she might get hurt.

7.Unwrapping a dishwasher tab, putting it in the machine and closing the door

She so loves those little tabs. She used to take the box out of the cupboard when she was little and play with them. I guess it’s no wonder that she enjoys using them for real, now. And we were both pretty surprised when we realized that the wrapping around them is flimsy enough for her to tear. She’s always ready and waiting to get the dishwasher going for me!

8.Helping to put away groceries

We’re still going through some training for this one, but much like unloading the dishwasher, she’s definitely good at taking stuff out and giving it to me to put away. Since most of the shelves are still too high for her to access, it will be a little while longer before she’s truly unpacking groceries. But we’re off to a good start!

9.Helping make her own bottle (start hot water machine, scoop formula into bottle)

Another task that tends to get messy and she thankfully cannot yet push the button to start the water herself (oh the messes we’re going to have then), but she loves scooping the powder out of the container and dumping it into the bottle.

10.Wiping down the table

Mack is a table-wiping professional by now. She’s been doing it since she was big enough to reach over the edge of the coffee table. I think it’s probably one of her favorite chores to do around here. Maybe I can even convince her one day that dusting is just as much fun!

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It's a...

Wednesday, March 2

BOY!
That's right, the Ray household will be quite the boys club come July.  I thought there might be a chance to whip out the ruffle bottomed onesies and bow headbands with baby #2, but unless I want this boy to be confused, I better hold off and see what our chances are if (IF) there is a baby #3.

I can just see D and his little brother playing around like these guys one day soon.

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SF Travelog: Day 3 & 4

Tuesday, March 1

Day Three:
We decided to get up early and check out another walking tour, this time of Chinatown.  We are so glad we did as we learned a lot about the area, and also happened upon a little celebration complete with dragon and drums.  The tour ended on the same street just as this celebration begun.  It was incredible timing and we loved watching the show.


After Chinatown, we met up with Shelby and David, grabbed some incredible Italian sandwiches from a very authentic style deli, and headed for Crissy Field near the Golden Gate Bridge. We people and dog watched and enjoyed the incredible sunshine.



After the beach, we headed into the Presidio.  It is a National Park that used to be the home of the army base in San Francisco.  It was incredibly beautiful.  Full of old, fabulous homes, tall trees, and amazing views.  I looked up how much the homes in the park rent for -- they start at $2,000/month and go up to $10,000+/month.  So much for the dream of moving there to raise my children...

Here you can see where the city stops and the park begins.  This park is smack dab in the middle of the city.


In the park, looking out east over the Pacific Ocean.
After the beach and Presidio, we headed for the Mission, one of the more hipster neighborhoods in SF.  We went thrift store shopping, checked out another branch of Therapy, and then found the best thrift store of all -- Painted Bird.  Everything was priced between $10-20 and I loved most of it.  It was a smaller store, but it was as though someone with almost my exact taste had already pre-sorted the clothes for me.  I bought four items (leaving the caftan that I loved and everyone else hated for someone else...).  Then, we ate a great burrito meal at a little taqueria.  Perfect ending to a great day!

Day Four:
For the last day, we just took it easy as we felt like we had already seen all the major spots of the city.  I went to Trader Joe's with Shelby (awesome!), we made brunch, hung out, then Sander and I did some last minute shopping/walking through the Marina before our flight.

We caught a cab to the BART (train that also goes to the airport) so we would have lots of time to check our bag and get through security.  David and Shelby have both missed flights, something we hoped to avoid.  But, first we couldn't find a cab.  I ended up running down half a block to catch a cab dropping someone off.  Then we had trouble at the BART and ended up running to the tram at the airport, running to our gate (they switched TERMINALS at the last minute) and arriving just as it boarded.  It was not the relaxing ending to the trip we had hoped for, but we made the flight and arrived with all our bags in DFW, ready to see our little Dexter.

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SF Travelog: Night 2

Monday, February 28

After Sander and I had a very full day touring around San Francisco on our own, we met up with Shelby and David for a night out in the North Beach neighborhood. It is San Francisco's "Little Italy" neighborhood and home to Tony's Pizza Napolitano. We got there at 6:30 or so and there was an hour and half wait already. We put our name down and decided to walk around and see what else we may want to eat. We ended up splitting up so the guys could climb to the top of Coit Tower at the top of Telegraph Hill while Shelby and I hung out in a random little cafe. My calf's were killing me from all the hills we'd climbed that day and the contractions are still around, so even though I felt like the lazy girl missing the adventure, I have to say I enjoyed my truly italian de-caf coffee very much!



We jumped in at a table with a sweet old man (you can see him over my shoulder) after a rude mad "stole" the open table from us. One on the neatest things about SF is the communal nature of all the restaurants and cafes. Everyone just shares tables and space and doesn't seem to mind at all.


As we walked back to the restaurant (by this point it was almost time for our reservation anyway), we happened upon Therapy, one of Shelby's favorite shops and also highly recommended on Design*Sponge's city guide to SF. I bought the coolest little journal entitled "vs." where each page has an illustration of one thing vs. another and then space to journal why you chose what you did. I am going to use it as my guest book (as all the older and wiser woman have suggested I have one as I entertain) to add a little humor to the entries. I was almost more excited about my free little reusable bag than the book inside...

Once back at the restaurant, we STILL had to wait for a table, but it proved more than worth it.


Tony's Margarita Pizza won the world pizza cup for in Naples in 2007 and deserved it. We ordered the Margarita and a deep dish pizza to split. The Margarita however was better than we expected and we were all eyeing each other to see how much the other would eat. Mmmmm...I'd go back to SF just for this pizza.

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SF Travelog: Day 2

Sunday, February 27

Yesterday all the weather reports called for snow, the first in 35 years in the Bay Area. We prepared with hats, scarfs, umbrellas, and a day full of indoor activities. However, once we got out the sky was clear and sunny. We went ahead and went to brunch, where Sander had a BOWL of coffee, not realizing what large meant.

Once we realized the blue skies were here to stay, we headed to the pier and caught a ferry to Sausalito across the bay.

Here I am with Alcatraz in the background. It was cold and windy!


Sausalito was a great, Mediterranean-esque village. We were only there long enough for lunch so we would have enough time to make it to the California Academy of Science before the end of the day.
*I did not take this picture*

It was an amazing museum, with the aquarium being our favorite.

We rode the bus back through the Presidio, right as the sun was setting. It was a gorgeous ride that put us out right by the Golden Gate Bridge.

Then, out we went last night for the best pizza of my life with David and Shelby...more on that tomorrow when I am not about to pass out from exhaustion.

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SF Travelog - Day 1

Friday, February 25

Well, at our sweet retro Motor Inn, we have free wifi, so we are taking the advantage of blogging during the trip. Much easier this way than trying to find the time once we are home.

We woke up at 4:30am (2:30am SF Time!) and made our way with only carry-ons to San Francisco.  We left Dexter behind with Tootsie and Pop (Sander's parents).  It was really hard for me to leave as he was still asleep and I didn't get that final goodbye, but I know he is having so much fun.  A house full of people and animals who are ready to play and entertain is always a nice thing!  Plus, he loves his Tootsie and Pop and will love this chance to interact more than skyping allows.

I realized I have never really been to a US city just to site-see. It is a wonderful experience so far and an AMAZING city. There is so much more to see and do than I ever imagined. The city is compact with very distinct neighborhoods. We have taken a bus ride and several taxi rides around the northern part of the city and are beginning to get a feel for the area. We also have two fabulous hosts who have set us up with maps and personal consultations on the best restaurants and places to visit (we love you Shelby and David!).

Here is a little of what we have done so far. Oh - and San Francisco is experiencing a cold snap and may even see snow tomorrow evening. The first in 40 years. So we are a little bundled up for walking around the city in the rainy, cold wetness.


Outside one of the hotels on Nob Hill. Home to the mansions of the Robber Barons back in the day. We went on a free walking tour this afternoon and learned so much about people like Leland Stanford and their various affairs, home burnings, and subsequent hotels.


Doors of Grace Cathedral which are copies of the doors at the Baptistry in Florence. See our amazing our guide with mouth wide open.


David and Shelby took us to an amazing fish place tonight and then were sweet enough to take me into Mel's Diner (which is right across from our hotel and literally next door to their apartment) for a milkshake. Here they think they have their own milkshakes...


...little do they know they are really all mine! No one else really wanted one after dinner, but the baby in me has woken up and is ready to eat. I was happy to finish them all.

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Rewind: Ft. Worth Rodeo

Thursday, February 24

Here are the pictures from the Fort Worth Livestock Show and Rodeo we went to back in January. Better late than never...= )


Dexter was bundled up and not too happy he didn't get to walk.


We went early, early before the morning rodeo so we could check out the children's area on our own. Dexter LOVED it and ran from animal to animal, shrieking everytime the turkey gobbled.


Bunnies...live and in person


I love the art deco fairgrounds.
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Earthquake?!

Wednesday, February 23

Ok, so we have been planning this trip to San Francisco for just a month or two.  I am super excited and can't wait to have a little "babymoon" (ours is early in case I get put on bedrest again).

However, yesterday I just realized that San Francisco lies on a fault line.


I know...tons of people live there and it will be fine, but still, I think it's a good thing I just read up on how to survive an earthquake on wikileaks...

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Fabric Feeling: Is it a Girl?

Monday, February 21

IF this little baby is a girl, here is the fabric I am thinking about for her nursery.  Of course I will pull in pinks and greens, but I can't decide if this is the one to invest in.  Even with making it myself, it won't be cheap.

I like the name though: Later Alligator.

We find out NEXT Wednesday if this little one is a boy or a girl.  I'll keep you updated for sure!

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Two Hours at the Pediatrician: A Level of Mom Inferno

Thursday, February 17

Well, let me just say there are worse things in life.  But, TWO hours at the pediatrician's office, at nap/lunch time, with a toddler who has a massive ear infection, no pacifier, blanket, extra toys, or lunch for a pregnant mom is not at the top of my list of events I want to repeat.

Today, as I headed out to my MOPS group playdate, I felt like I should go ahead and call the pediatrician about Dexter's recent behavior.  He was diagnosed 2 1/2 weeks ago with a bad ear infection, given antibiotics and seemed to get better.  He had some behavior iddues, but I figured it was because his daddy was gone for a week.  Well, yesterday when he pulled hair and even hit a kid in the head with a rock (!!!!!!), all unprevoked!  Needless to say I felt the to change something. 

I was praying about what to do last night and today as I feel like I have a good handle on all the "possible suspects."  We disciple consistently, we have a routine, he eats and sleeps well, and lots of mommy-and-me play time.  So, before I started a book reading regime or new discipline strategy, I thought...."maybe I should just rule out that his ear isn't causing him pain."

Glad I went, just wish it didn't take an hour and twenty minutes to even SEE a doctor!

They said on the phone to just pop by and someone would check out his ear.  Last time I went in at 12:30, I was in and out in 30min.  This time, I was in the waiting room for twice that.  So all I had was the half a sandwhich my play group host made for Dexter (thank you Tina!!!), one diaper, and one train.  I was totally unprepared for the marathon it became.

The ear turns out to be the worst ear infection that doctor had seen in a week and he wouldn't be surprised if it burst.  From my friend with 3 kids, she said it was worse than childbirth when her ear burst.  Awesome.  Explains the rock to the friend's head yesterday.  My dad is the same -- when he is in pain he won't cry about it, he'll just get grouchy. 

So, I went to Walgreen's and forked over the $75 for the new antibiotic (I'll wait and get the $130 one he'll need if his eardrum bursts till later...).  Now we're home.  Dexter is asleep.  My turn to sleep...

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Loving the Husband

Monday, February 14

Happy Valentine's day all!

Today, Sander is home from work after 6 days working 16 hour days on an off-shore oil rig platform (as I was just informed..."it's not a rig, it's a platform".  Now we know.)  He is tired, to say the least, so I thought I would try and pamper him for a change on Valentine's day.


I'm going to make these chocolate peanut-butter cups (one of his favorite candies) this afternoon.  They look so easy and quite delicious.  I am going to use my favorite brand of natural peanut-butter...I have high hopes.  I'll let you know how easy they turn out to be.

One other thing I wanted to pass on, on a day like today when we are thinking of love and such, is a list of 30 things you can pray for your husband.  I have written them into my daily calendar so I see them each day, and it is an easy reminder to pray for him each day.  When each day seems the same as the next, it is nice to have a list reminding me to pray for these different areas of his life.

Here's the list:
  1. Wife
  2. Work
  3. Finances
  4. Intimacy
  5. Affection
  6. Temptations
  7. Mind
  8. Fears
  9. Purpose
  10. Choices
  11. Health
  12. Protection
  13. Trials
  14. Integrity
  15. Reputation
  16. Fatherhood
  17. Past
  18. Attitude
  19. Marriage
  20. Emotions
  21. Walk
  22. Talk
  23. Repentance
  24. Deliverance
  25. Obedience
  26. Self-image
  27. Faith
  28. Future
  29. Priorities
  30. Relationships

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Cake Recipe + Banners

Saturday, February 12


I helped host a shower for a friend today and made these little cake banners. I have never been great at cake decorating, so I didn't want to try and write anything in icing on the top. Then, thanks to blogs, etsy, and Martha Stewart, I saw these cute paper cake banners. What a relief -- I can handle paper and markers!

For the cake, I made Ina Garten's Beatty's Chocolate Cake. When a recipe on Food Network has 953 reviews and 5 stars, I figured it was worth the gamble to make it site-unseen for the party. I have to say, it is the best cake recipe I have ever made! I was a little bummed so many people showed up at the shower as I could have eaten muuuuch more than I did. = ) I also used the Food Network's cream cheese frosting recipe. Good, but next time I think I will add more cream cheese than butter, or add a bit of lemon juice to kick up the cream cheese taste. I quadrupled the recipe for the cake and had too much. I think 3X the recipe would be ample for a layer cake of this size.

**I used Ina's recommended E. Guittard cocoa powder (I got my at Sur la Table for $8...but I should be able to make several cakes with it, so worth the little extra expense) and I made sure I didn't over bake the cakes. They will barely spring back when done and will still have some crumbs attached to the cake tester. The crumbs will be dryer, but it is a moist cake, so keep that in mind. Also, I dusted my pans with cocoa powder (the cheap Hershey's cocoa works just fine here...don't waste the good stuff!) instead of using flour.  That way you don't have any lingering white dust on your finished cake -- just pure, chocolatey goodness!

It is a really easy cake to make, so if you haven't made a cake from scratch before, this would be a great one to try -- don't be scared! It is worth it!



Here is one of the layers before I put it in the oven.  Instead of buying the bands you can use to level your cake, I just cut strips from an old towel, soaked them in water, wrung them out, then attached with a straight pin (be sure it doesn't have a plastic head!).  It worked GREAT!  My cakes were flat as can be and not a crack or a dry edge to be found.

Let me know if you make the cake...love to hear your thoughts!

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The Best of my Day

Friday, February 11

What a GREAT craft!!  I wish I had seen this earlier in the year, but it is never too late to start.  I love her idea of writing things down each night with her children.  Dexter is too young now, but in a few years this would be a great thing to do together.  AND, because the space is small, I won't feel overwhelmed to think up something long, deep, or involved.

The best part of my day today: Having Dexter throw his arm around my neck while we snuggled early this morning.

Check this out and make some for you and your family and friends today!
http://ashleyannphotography.com/blog/2011/01/10/diy-the-best-of-my-days-notepad-2011/

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I just saw this and LOVE IT!  I wish today's product wasn't sold out...it would be perfect for our little, nerdy home.

Nerdy Baby Flashcards

Here is what they say on the website:

Quite Unique is a new website that features one unique handpicked item per day at a great value. Each item purchased comes from a small producer who utilizes unusual materials or techniques, or who has an interesting back-story to their company.
If you want to check it out, click here for Quite Unique's website.

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Roots Going Deep


What a couple of weeks it has been.  My blog has been a tad quite, but life has not! 

After my bout with the week-long-mystery sickness (now I think it was just a virus and not the flu...but I digress), Sander was supposed to leave for a week long trip to an off-shore oil rig.  Well, early that Monday morning he was supposed to leave, Dexter had another fever induced seizure.  This one was almost more traumatic in the fact that it happened at 4am in the morning and we were all alone.  I am so thankful Sander was there and had not left yet for the rig, but there were no supportive mom friends or doctors at the hospital to assure me this time it was ok.  We called the after-hours doctor, and then just held Dexter as he went through all the stages of seizure and deep sleep that comes afterwards.  The doctor, when we saw him the next day, said he would be fine, but that more were likely before he turns 5 years old.  Great.  It was caused by a pretty severe ear infection, so the rest of the week I recovered from my sickness and nursed a very grouchy, sleepy toddler back to health.

Sander's trip to the rig was cancelled after the seizure incident and postponed for yet another week.

Then, this last Monday, the day Sander was set to leave, I woke up all night with contractions and then had enough spotting that I was quite worried the next morning.  It was a huge rush to get to the midwives early so Sander would know, "should I stay or should I go?" for yet another week.  After a very long appointment, with lots of different info, the bottom line is I am ok for now, but I need to take it easy and drink lots of water.

Maybe this just sounds like a little list of small problems, but while going through them and before meeting with the doctors, there were definitely a few tears shed.  I forget how fragile life is, and the fact that my heart is beating this morning, or that my small son is breathing, or my baby-yet-to-be-born is still in my womb, is miraculous. 

I spoke to my dear friend Pauline, who is over 80 years old (I say she is my sister separated by age), and she was quite encouraging.  She said that this wasn't happening because I have made mistakes or just need to learn a lesson or two, she said it was happening so my roots could go deep.  She is referring to the story Jesus told that is related in Mark 4:

 He (Jesus) taught them many things by parables, and in his teaching said: 3 “Listen! A farmer went out to sow his seed. 4 As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path, and the birds came and ate it up. 5 Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow. 6 But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root. 7 Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants, so that they did not bear grain. 8 Still other seed fell on good soil. It came up, grew and produced a crop, some multiplying thirty, some sixty, some a hundred times.”  ...

13 Then Jesus said to them, “Don’t you understand this parable? How then will you understand any parable? 14 The farmer sows the word. 15 Some people are like seed along the path, where the word is sown. As soon as they hear it, Satan comes and takes away the word that was sown in them. 16 Others, like seed sown on rocky places, hear the word and at once receive it with joy. 17 But since they have no root, they last only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, they quickly fall away. 18 Still others, like seed sown among thorns, hear the word; 19 but the worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful. 20 Others, like seed sown on good soil, hear the word, accept it, and produce a crop—some thirty, some sixty, some a hundred times what was sown.”

So, as the craziness of life comes, and the worries and fears of things outside of my control pop up in somewhat frequent occurrence, I want to see them as a chance to trust God.  I want to be like a strong, healthy plant that has roots that are deep -- that can survive the droughts, the floods, and the storms of life.  I guess I can't get deep roots without growth though, and that takes time, and rain, and sun, and pruning.

However, if Monday comes and goes without a dramatic event, I will be more than pleased.

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Fun for 5 and Under

Friday, February 4

My friend (and old roommate from college) has just started an awesome blog called Fun for 5 and Under.  She works with toddlers and their parents for her job and has some great ideas to keep toddlers interested and learning.  I am so excited to have some new activities to do with Dexter as all he says these days is: "play! play!".  He always wants something new to do.

I think I'll start by making him a name banner for his new room:

Name Recognition:

Helping children to recognize and learn their name can be part of everyday tasks. You can start pretty early with talking to them about their name around 12 months. Having the letters of their name on the wall above the changing table has really helped me. Every time I changed Noah's diaper we would look at his name and talk about it. Pretty soon he had the letters memorized(only 4 letters) and now he recognizes his name on paper and we will be work on writing it next. You can make up fun chants to help them remember and let them decorate their name. You can use cheerios, marshmallows, buttons, candy,etc for a fun way to learn their name.




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